Funeral Wishes Planner (NJ)
This document will help your family and friends understand your wishes for final arrangements and funeral services. You can use it record your preferences for religious traditions, how your remains will be viewed, what sort of gravesite marker you would like to have, and even if there are particular flowers you would like.
Depending on your jurisdiction, this document may not be legally enforceable. It is just intended to inform your loved ones of your wishes. However, having something like this will make it much more likely that your wishes will be followed. It can also help to relieve the burden from your loved ones of having to guess what you would have wanted.